The Best Romantic Northern California Getaways for Couples

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Northern California provides the perfect atmosphere for a romantic getaway for couples. Your tranquil surroundings will encourage you to disconnect from your mobile devices and live in the moment! Couples can explore picturesque towns and indulge together in luxurious accommodations, spa treatments, and romantic dinners.

There are several incredible places for couples to visit in Northern California. However, to make my list, the locations must be romantic, great for couples, and have an option for luxurious accommodations. Here are my top picks for romantic getaways in Northern California!

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Romantic Getaways in Northern California for Couples

Romance in the Napa Valley Region of Northern California

A visit to Northern California’s wine region is an incredibly romantic and luxurious getaway for couples. Romance fills the air as you and your loved one enjoy tranquil surroundings with fantastic wine and fine dining. The laid-back five-star hotels don’t miss a beat when it comes to true luxury. Plus, Napa Valley is a short drive from the Bay Area, making it an easy romantic weekend getaway for couples.

What can couples do in the Napa Valley area?

Wine Tasting

For couples, wine tasting is a main attraction in the Napa Valley area (Napa, Yountville, Calistoga, St. Helena, and Rutherford). Each vineyard has its own inspiring and unique tasting program. Some vineyards, like Joseph Phelps, invite guests to enjoy wine on a beautiful patio overlooking the sprawling vineyard, while others like The Prisoner Wine Company have a specialty tasting room. With so many vineyards, you have the option of picking the venue that works best for you. Visitors may prefer to sign up for a wine tasting tour and not have to think about planning.

For a romantic afternoon, visit Domaine Carneros, where you will experience the ultimate in luxury indulgence. During your visit, you can arrange a tasting tour to learn how the grapes are cultivated, how the wine is made, and the nuances of the different flavors. Book a private table overlooking the Carneros vineyard with a tasting menu paired with inspiring small bites. You can even add a flight of caviar to your tasting experience.

On your romantic wine lovers’ excursion, I suggest two to three tastings to immerse yourself in the wine tasting experience. If you are doing a self-guided wine tour, consider hiring a car to avoid drinking and driving.

Dining in the Napa Valley Region

To spice up the romance level while in Napa, consider elevating your dining experiences. The level of food and service is top-notch. There are 30 different Michelin-rated restaurants in addition to countless others that have been wowing crowds for years.

For lunch, treat yourself and your partner to an unforgettable meal at Auberge du Soleil, where the food is fabulous and views are stellar. Dinner in Napa is an experience too. Consider splurging at one of Thomas Keller’s famous restaurants like French Laundry or Bouchon (if you can get a reservation).

Other Exciting Activities for Couples

If wine tasting is not for you, there are plenty of other romantic activities in the Napa Valley area of California. Find peace and serenity on your romantic Northern California getaway and indulge in a couple’s massage followed by a glass of champagne or chocolate-covered strawberries. Or, if you are more of an active and adventurous couple, opt for a sunset hot-air balloon ride, take a cooking class, go for a romantic hike or bike ride with a picnic lunch, or play a round of golf with your significant other. Your options are limitless.

The Napa Valley region is extremely popular with couples looking for a romantic getaway in Northern California. Since it is an easily accessible destination from the Bay Area (San Francisco, Oakland, Palo Alto, etc.) and close to several airports, I recommend that you make reservations in advance for dinner, wine tasting, and even a spa appointment.

What are Splurge-Worthy Hotels in Napa Valley for Couples?

Yountville: The Estate in Yountville is romantic and luxurious. Choose from bungalow-style rooms at the Vintage House with airy and natural charm, or opt for a modern, contemporary vibe at Hotel’s Villaggio. Either way, you can take advantage of the pristine 22-acre oasis in downtown Yountville. Plus, the superb location gives visitors the chance to stroll through the walkable downtown that offers upscale boutiques, restaurants, and the V Marketplace.

Rutherford: Enjoy breathtaking views, and unparalleled service at Auberge du Soleil, where the staff is dedicated to ensuring each guest experience is superb. The luxurious accommodations blend causal sophistication with timeless elegance.

Calistoga: The Four Seasons Resort and Residences Napa Valley is nestled in the vineyards surrounded by nature’s beauty. Relax and indulge and let the Four Seasons expertly plan your experiences during your romantic Northern California getaway.

Solage Calistoga, part of Auberge Resorts Collection, is another fabulous property. The unique private studio accommodations provide a romantic setting for you and your loved one. You can unwind at Spa Solage, dine at the Michelin Star-rated Solbar, or ride your bike and explore downtown Calistoga.

Big Sur is a Northern California romantic retreat for couples

A trip to Big Sur spotlights Northern California’s scenic coastline. The quiet, serene, and relaxing town provides the opportunity for a couple to be one with nature. Big Sur is located in Northern California, where the Pacific Ocean meets the Santa Lucia Mountains. Big Sur is an iconic destination, much like the nearby Bixby Bridge, that you have to experience to truly understand the rave reviews.

What are things for couples to do in Big Sur?

Let the stunning geography overtake your senses and release the everyday stresses of life. Start your romantic getaway in Northern California with a walk through the magical forests providing a sense of serenity. Your spiritual awaking as a couple might continue with a yoga class or a romantic afternoon picnic. Consider a nap or spoiling your partner with a unique spa treatment for couples, a wine and cheese tasting, or a soak in a hot tub that melts all your troubles away. A day in Big Sur turns to night as you watch a gorgeous sunset and finish your evening with a leisurely dinner.

A trip to Big Sur can include thrilling activities for the adventurous couple. Visitors can go mountain biking, hiking, surfing, and even kiteboarding. BUT, you don’t have to be an adrenaline enthusiast to enjoy this spectacular coastal retreat. There is something for everyone to do in Big Sur.

What are splurge-worthy hotels for couples in Big Sur?

Post Ranch Inn and Alila Vantana Big Sur are the type of properties you want to stay at to enjoy the company of your significant other. You can curl up with a good book, stroll along the walking paths, or breathe in the fresh air and enjoy your tranquil surroundings. These adults-only properties create a romantic environment.

The secluded Post Ranch Inn offers guests the opportunity to unwind and be present in the moment. During the day, you sit high on the mountain overlooking the crashing waves below. An afternoon activity might include relaxing in a hot tub looking down on the ocean below, enjoying a walk around the gardens, or partaking in a spa treatment. At night, the peace and serenity you feel are equally amazing. Imagine a cold night sitting in the Jacuzzi starring up and seeing the night sky light up with stars.

Across the street, Alila Vantana Big Sur is tucked away in a redwood forest where nature envelops you. Reconnect with your partner and let your surroundings guide you to inner peace in the lap of luxury. The sophisticated yet rustic rooms and suites provide all the modern luxuries you would expect in this serene environment. At Alila Vantana Big Sur, guests can indulge at the spa and partake in other signature experiences that you will remember for a lifetime.

If you prefer to be closer to mother nature, Alila Vantana Big Sur also offers glamping.

Carmel-by-the-Sea offers a romantic getaway in Northern California

Carmel-by-the-Sea, also known as Carmel, is an enchanting and romantic town located in Northern California. The hidden walkways and corridors reveal charming local shops that are refreshingly unique and steps from the beach.

What activities are there in Carmel for couples?

While visiting Carmel, couples might enjoy the 17-mile drive through the exclusive neighborhood of Lone Cypress. Visit sites like Restless Sea, Point Joe, Bird Rock, and the Lone Cypress tree on your drive. Stop for a romantic lunch at The Bench at Pebble Beach, which overlooks the 18^th hole and the ocean.

If you have never seen redwoods, you might stop at Purisima Creek Trail and walk through the grove of gigantic trees. The towering trees are a sight to see.

For those who love to see marine life, you might enjoy a visit to Point Lobos State Natural Reserve. During whale season, visitors might be able to spot gray whales from the land or get up close and personal with what lies beneath on a scuba diving adventure.

On your romantic getaway in Northern California, wander the streets, stop in local shops, and perhaps buy something special to remind you of a great trip.

What are splurge-worthy hotels for couples in Carmel?

Carmel has several luxurious hotel options.

Carmel Valley Ranch provides relaxed luxury in the hills above Carmel. Steps from your hotel room are beautiful hiking trails, and right out your front door, you might find deer and wild turkeys wandering around. Carmel Valley Ranch is less than ten minutes from downtown Carmel and is a paradise for nature lovers.

L’Auberge Carmel stands out for those who prefer to combine luxury in the heart of downtown Carmel. From L’Auberge Carmel, guests can walk to shops, restaurants, and the beach, all without giving up style and elegance.

The Lodge at Pebble Beach is known for its breathtaking beauty matched with true luxury. Play a round of golf with your partner where some of golf’s greatest champions have won coveted titles or indulge in spa treatments from the five-star spa.

Half Moon Bay is a romantic gem in Northern California

Half Moon Bay is a quiet coastal town in Northern California filled with local unique shops and restaurants. Romance is all around Half Moon Bay. You can find it as you shop together in the historic downtown area, as you bundle up in front of a fire pit, or meander down the California Coastal Trail with your coffee and mittens.

What are things for couples to do in Half Moon Bay?

If the first few things listed above didn’t entice you, Half Moon Bay has several other activities to keep couples busy. Couples can visit one of the many state parks in Northern California and see the towering redwoods and the coast. Head to the famed Año Nuevo State Park, where the elephant seals breed. Imagine 10,000 massive seals competing to mate with one another. Do you think a visit will get you in the mood for romance?

In the summer, soak up some rays at one of the famed beaches like Half Moon Bay or Pescadero State Beaches. Surfing enthusiasts may want to visit Mavericks Beach, where surfers can catch insanely large waves when the conditions are just right. At the world-famous big wave surf break, waves can reach 60 feet.

At night, sit by a fire pit and cuddle under a blanket as you hear the waves crash in front of you.

What is a splurge-worthy hotel for couples in Half Moon Bay?

The Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay sits perched high on a bluff overlooking the water. The inside of The Ritz Carlton Half Moon Bay is modern, luxurious, and has stunning ocean views.

Opt for a room with an ocean view. Imagine sitting up in bed, drinking coffee, and looking at the waves crashing on the rocks below or listening to the sounds of the waves as they lull you to sleep at night. You won’t regret it!

FAQs for a Romantic Northern California Getaway for Couples

What is the easiest way to reach each of these romantic Northern California getaways?

Half Moon Bay is a short 30-minute drive from San Francisco International Airport and forty-five minutes from Oakland International Airport.

Big Sur is about a two-hour and twenty-minute drive down the Northern California coast from San Francisco International Airport. The drive to Big Sur from Oakland International Airport is a two-hour and forty-minute drive. There is a curvy cliff-side stretch of road that is gorgeous, but I prefer to drive it in the daylight.

The drive to Carmel is about an hour and forty-five minutes from San Francisco International Airport and about two hours from Oakland International Airport.

Napa is about an hour to drive from either San Francisco International Airport or Oakland International Airport.

Should I fly into San Francisco International Airport or Oakland International Airport?

I generally fly into Oakland International Airport when I travel to Northern California. Fog can delay flights in and out of San Francisco International Airport.

Do I need to rent a car when visiting Half Moon Bay, Napa, Big Sur, or Carmel?

Yes. You will want to car to explore the local area and get from the airport to your final destination.

Can I combine these destinations into one Northern California romantic getaway?

Yes! You can drive from Napa to Carmel for an incredible road trip down the Northern California coast on Highway 1, also known as Pacific Coast Highway. I loved seeing these charming destinations and taking advantage of these romantic Northern California destinations. A road trip down PCH is an incredible way to see these towns and one I highly recommend.

When visiting these romantic Northern California cities and towns, do I need to make reservations in advance?

Carmel, Big Sur, and Half Moon Bay are along the famous Highway 1 (Pacific Coast Highway) route. Due to their popularity, the hotels mentioned herein book up quickly. Reservations are crucial. Take it from me. I once made this trip without making any reservations. Let’s just say my week trip was cut short, very, very short. The next time I drove Highway 1, I made several reservations in advance and had a wonderful time!

The Napa Valley region is also a highly coveted romantic destination for couples. Due to its popularity, reservations, even for wine tours, are highly recommended.

Have you been to any of these destinations? I’d love to hear what you think in the comments below!

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